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Thoughts On What Makes A Great Male Lover
A friend of mine asked me what makes a great lover. While the answer may differ from woman to woman, this was my response:
The best lover knows how to listen to his woman; not only to her verbal, but her nonverbal cues.
He hears and sees her for who she is not who he wishes her to be.
He knows when she wants to be held and when she wants space.
He knows what makes her safe and what threatens her.
He supports her when she needs it, yet recognize when she has to do it herself.
he knows when to take charge and when to lay back.
He is strong, yet tender.
He is assertive, yet willing to admit when wrong.
he is reliable, yet unpredictable (in a healthy way)
He is sure of himself, yet willing to grow.
He asks questions when he doesn't know.
He is passionate and mysterious.
He is courageous and adventurous.
He knows when to be selfless.
He knows his strengths and limitations and is open and honest about them.
When making love to a woman, he doesn't assume he knows what she likes; he carefully listen to her body or asks her.
He is truly happy and comfortable with himself.
He loves life.
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